They’re in College, Now What?
Being a good parent to a college student means striking the right balance between support and independence. Here are some key tips:
- Communicate, But Don’t Hover
Stay connected through regular check-ins, but avoid micromanaging. Let your student take the lead in sharing updates and making decisions. This builds confidence and independence. - Offer Emotional Support
College can be stressful—academically and socially. Be a listening ear without judgment. Encourage resilience and remind them that challenges are part of growth. - Respect Their Independence
Your student is learning to manage life on their own. Trust them to handle responsibilities like scheduling, budgeting, and problem-solving. Offer advice only when asked or when truly necessary. - Stay Informed About Resources
Know what support services their college offers—academic advising, mental health counseling, career centers—so you can guide them if they need help. 5. Manage Expectations
Grades, majors, and timelines may change. Be flexible and focus on long-term success rather than perfection.
NIACC understands the challenges that come with sending your child off to college. We offer many free resources and services to support your student. Whether that is academic support, wellness resources, or social activities, we are just as committed as you to supporting their success.
